9.20.2009

Sunday September 20

Well, I am writing --very reluctantly-- for my friend Lenette because she is unable to this evening. She has had a rough couple of days.
She is resting fairly comfortably tonight and is surrounded by her family. Her kidneys are shutting down and her oxygen levels are very low. I am afraid that the transplant that she had prayed for and hoped for may not be a possibility any longer. Cody, David and I, along with Pastor Elaina and our dear friend, David Stocker had a very serious and painful conversation this afternoon. After having spoken with the nurse who has cared for Len all day, the boys and I agreed that Lenette is at a crossroads in which she may need to be made comfortable and that it may be time to let go. I honestly never thought I would have to carry out the wishes that she expressed to me. I sincerely thought she would have the transplants, go on to finish her book, and rock her grandbabies.
I am still praying for a miracle, trust me! And I am praying for peace for Lenette and her 3 boys all of whom will stay with her tonight.
Please try to not call or text them. They are trying to spend time with their Mom and soak it all in. I told them how proud I am of all of them...as I know you all are too.
As they have needs, they will let us know. Until then, please respect their time with Lenette and let's all give thanks tonight for the love and laughs she brought to our lives.

When I know anything more, I will let you know.
Thank you for your prayers and love,
Sleep well, Lenette.
Melodee

2 comments:

Cindy said...

Melodee, Cody, David & Tommy,
I am so sorry to hear this latest news about Lenette. It is difficult to put into words the sorrow I feel for all of you at this very critical crossroad. I too hoped you would never have to carry out her final wishes and I too will do something I almost never do..to pray for that miracle and for the strength you will all need if that miracle doesn't happen. My heart is heavy and my thoughts will be with all of you tonight. Take care and please give Lenette our love and a big thank you for being our friend.
Love,
Cindy Turner

Anonymous said...

Lenny,

You have always been the tower of strength for everyone around you.

I will continue to pray for a miracle. No one deserves one more than you.

Love,
Laurie Mefford